Text/Liu Shen Leilei
An expert asked a foreign guest how to make young people obediently have children, which sparked a lot of discussion.
There are many points to criticize in the expert’s original words. I couldn’t help but say a few words.
This generation of young people is actually obedient enough.
They have emotions and pressure, and they mainly resolve them themselves, without causing much trouble. In other words, this generation of young people is particularly good at self-counseling.
Do you know what some of the top twenty annual products on a certain online shopping platform are recently? Hydroponic bananas, a homophone for “no anxiety”, one link sells over 100,000. Everyone comforts themselves like this, how can they not be obedient?
If they are allowed to play, they will play, walking to the end of Yulin Road, to the door of the bar; if they are not allowed to play, they won’t say anything. They celebrate the holidays that are allowed, and if they are not encouraged, they put away their props and pretend to pass by with their heads down. What good people.
They love to scold their bosses online, but they don’t seem to do anything to them. You see those upsetting social revenge events, it’s still the middle-aged and elderly who do them. What have young people done?
The poems, novels, rock and roll, and hip-hop they read, which one is not obedient? I think the things I read when I was a child were much more rebellious. Even online novels are now dominated by “苟” (to survive), and the way of survival is popular. In the early years of male-oriented online novels, the protagonists had to “temper themselves between life and death” and “challenge across levels”, but now they don’t temper themselves, they all survive.
How else do they need to be obedient?
Young people do have some things they don’t understand, because there is an information gap and an experience gap. But they still understand things in life, there is no information gap.
They know how much rent costs, how much transportation costs, and how much coffee and milk tea cost. It’s the professors who don’t know.
How to live their lives, they understand themselves. No matter how much they like a blogger, as long as the blogger ignores their life difficulties and insists that high-priced products are not expensive, they will turn against them. They know where the breaking point of life is.
If a generation likes cats and dogs very much but doesn’t want children, it doesn’t mean they lack the ability to love, but because of their worries. Eliminating worries is the most effective. It’s not very effective to always want to solve the problem by doing ideological work.
The professor also ignored one thing: obedient and submissive, these eight words are a cycle of paternal harm.
Thinking about making people obedient and submissive, someone will turn around and make you obedient and submissive. Don’t have the illusion of being at the top of the food chain.
In Jin Yong’s novels, there are many snake slaves in the White Camel Mountain, and what they think about every day is to make the snakes obedient and submissive.
As a result, on the big ship, the young master Ouyang Ke set fire to the ship and let the snake slaves be buried with him. They were frightened and screamed, running around and shouting, but it was useless, and in the end they could only be obedient and submissive.
However, Ouyang Ke was bullied by Hong Qigong again, who stuffed his mouth with chicken bones, which were still chewed, and he didn’t even dare to complain. The only thing he could do was to be obedient and submissive.
You see the barber, people also shave his head. You think about how to make young people obedient and submissive, and others think about how to make you institutions and experts obedient and submissive. Such a cycle, when will it end?
I couldn’t help but automatically interpret it in the style of a Qiong Yao drama:
“Don’t you love me because I’m not obedient and submissive enough?”
“No, I just love your disobedience and non-submission!”
“Oh my god, I love that you love my disobedience and non-submission!”
Of course, this matter is also difficult for the gentlemen.
After all, having children is not the same as investing in stocks. If you want everyone to invest in stocks, someone will come forward voluntarily, play the role of investing in stocks, live stream investing in stocks, and then go to claim credit, showing how fresh and hard they are guiding. You can’t act out having children, how do you guide it, you have to really give birth.
It’s still Fan Zhiyi’s words, you don’t have that ability, you know.
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