At 21:47 on December 31, 2024, when everyone was immersed in the joy of the New Year, the Rong Media Center of Wujin District, Changzhou, Jiangsu – “Today Wujin”, released a situation report.
Gong Xinyu, Secretary of the Party Committee of Qianhuang Town, Wujin District, was removed from his relevant positions and accepted organizational investigation for posting inappropriate remarks in the WeChat group.
According to media reports, at 22:23 one night, in the “Qianhuang Town Work Group”, a person with the group nickname “Secretary Gong” suddenly sent a message:
“Let me see what you look like when you’re taking a bath, dear“.
Plus two kisses.
Although the group owner disbanded the group six minutes later, it was too late.
Because of this flirtatious remark, Secretary Gong, who loves to watch people “take a bath”, fell on New Year’s Eve.
It’s WeChat groups again, and it’s flirting again. The lessons of Dean Yuan of Jiu Hong and the silk stocking virus are not far away. Secretary Gong is not the first victim, nor will he be the last.
It can be seen that our leading comrades are still very unfamiliar and alienated from WeChat groups, which are commonplace. It seems that it is still very necessary to compile a guide for leading cadres to use WeChat groups.
If we really want to compile a guide for leading cadres to use WeChat groups, we still need to trouble the frontline staff within the system, but in my opinion, there are three constructive suggestions that must be particularly emphasized.
1. No flirting after 10 p.m.
Secretary Gong wanted to watch a bath, flirt, oh no, it happened at 22:23;
Dean Yuan Jiuhong of Southeast University posted inappropriate photos at 22:06;
“Wear stockings and wait for me” in Hunan happened at 22:07.
It can be seen that leading cadres are really conscientious and devoted, and only after 10 p.m. do they have time to talk about love.
But Mencius said well, “Born in sorrow, died in pleasure.” The more comfortable you are, the easier it is to be numb. When you are full and warm, you think of metaphors. If you drink a few more small drinks, like a greedy cat, you can’t guarantee what unsightly things will be sent out.
Therefore, our leading cadres, please, please, don’t stay up late, set an alarm clock for yourself, and go to bed as soon as it’s 10 p.m.
If you really can’t sleep, don’t play with your phone, especially after drinking, just shut it down to avoid future troubles.
But these are only methodological, and at the worldview level, you must engrave “No flirting after 10 p.m.” into your DNA.
Think about the consequences of the wrong message, think about your future, which is more important, it goes without saying.
2. Set up wallpapers to prevent wrong messages in group chats
Leading cadres are devoted to serving the people and may not be familiar with the online chat culture of the working people, so they have missed many practical tips.
For example, wallpapers to prevent wrong messages in group chats.
Set different chat backgrounds in different WeChat groups to regulate your chat behavior. Work group “Okay, received”, eating melon group “Speak freely”, family group “Speak well”…
Leaders just don’t understand this simple operation, so they sent the flirting information to the wrong group chat. With the wallpaper to prevent wrong messages in group chats, always remind yourself that our leading cadres will not make such low-level mistakes again.
There are many such pictures online, but since there are no pictures for leading cadres, I have added a few words to them to make them more targeted.
If you still feel that it is not direct enough, you can have a big word on the screen – no flirting.
I’m just providing an idea. I believe that the art designers within the system should be able to make more group chat background pictures that satisfy the leaders.
Come on.
3. Don’t be impatient, have foreplay
It may be that they are used to saying what they say. Leading cadres are used to starting from zero frames. They come up with a picture of a butt or words like “watch a bath” and “wear stockings and wait for me”. Without saying anything, they are impatient and anxious. Who can stand this?
You don’t even give a buffer time, it’s hard and dry, and there will be problems.
As a leader, you should also learn foreplay, learn to wait, and learn to let go of your authority. First send some normal dialogues, and wait for the other party to reply and react, and then slowly slide into the desired conversation track.
For example, you can send “Are you there? What are you doing?”, which is annoying nonsense in other occasions, but may be a life-saving straw for leaders. Even if it is sent wrong, others can’t blame it.
Putting down your own posture, leaders, step by step, gradually enter the state, is respect for others, and also gives yourself room.
In addition, there are actually some small tips, such as, put the flirting object, file transfer assistant, etc. on top, and flirt only on the top; for example, in the WeChat dialog box, click the “+” sign to transfer photos, instead of clicking “share” in the picture to WeChat to transfer photos…
The above are just to throw a brick to attract jade. If friends within the system need it, please contact me. I can develop a complete guide for leading cadres to use WeChat groups and make it into a course, with a large quantity and preferential price, and attach 10 wallpapers for wrong messages in group chats.
Welcome everyone to forward it to the leaders in need. My 2025 wealth plan depends on you.
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